Thursday, July 16, 2015
Is there such a thing as a mistake?
And what's the opposite of a mistake? How come we don't have a term for it?
Who decides if something is a mistake?
When is the decision made?
When is the decision final?
A mistake is the vaguest of concepts. And yet it can be crippling emotionally if taken to the extreme.
"I made a mistake." Even "I am a mistake."
The fact of the matter is people make the best decisions they can, they take the best actions they can. No one ever thinks, "This decision/action is a mistake."
No, it's only in hindsight that the mistake label is slapped on. And even then it's not terribly reflective of reality.
Back to "I made a mistake."
It simply is not that cut and dried.
You made a mistake forever? Couldn't your "mistake's" consequences change over time?
Aren't there multiple categories and viewpoints to be considered? You made a mistake when your business lost out on an investment. So okay, it's a mistake for your business' bottom line. But that investment loss allowed you to spend more time with your family, so it's clearly not a mistake in that sense.
Mistakes are bogeymans, nothing more. People do the best they can at the time and how things play out are multitudinous. "Mistake" is just too simple, too easy and very inaccurate.